Sexual Violence on Campus
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Rape
Rape usually occurs when a man forces a woman to have sex against her
will. However the incidence of rape in which a man is the victim
is increasing. It may be a man being raped by another man or a
woman. In fact, 91% of rape victims are women, and 9% are men,
while 99% of offenders are men.
Usually rape involves forced sexual activity involving penetration of
the vagina, anus, or mouth, with the penis or other foreign object.
Rape is not a crime of passion, but a crime of violence.
An estimated 20% -25% of college women report experiencing
attempted or complete rape during their college career. In
the US, 1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men reported experiencing an attempted
or completed rape at some time in their life. Sexual Assault
Sexual Assault is any activity of a sexual nature that you are forced to
participate in against your will. It includes Rape, Attempted Rape
and Child Molestation, but it can also include activities that you might
not consider.
SEXUAL ASSAULT can include:
Exposing yourself to another person in a suggestive manner
Touching or being touched inappropriately
Unwanted hugging or kissing
Sexually suggestive language or content of speech
If
your partner expresses any desire to stop your activity and you
continue, you may be guilty of sexual assault.
Sexual assault can also mean coercion. If your partner asks or
tells you to stop, and you "talk them into it" you may be guilty of
coercion and sexual assault.
Risk Reduction Tips
These suggestions are helpful in reducing your risk of
being raped. However, there is no guarantee that these will work
all the time. Rape can be unpredictable. Being aware of
yourself and your surroundings is the most important aspect of avoiding
rape.
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Be clear, honest, and consistent in your verbal communication about your
sexual desires and limits.
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Set clear sexual limits. Clearly articulate what your sexual limits are,
and communicate them early on.
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Meet a first date or blind date in a public place.
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Drive to meet your date. Tell a friend who you are going out with and
where you are going.
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Don't give out your phone number, ask for theirs.
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Say goodnight at the car rather than your front door.
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Avoid use of alcohol and other drugs.
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Don't leave a party or social event with someone you don't know well or
have just met. However, remember that most rapes are committed by
someone you know.
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Trust your instincts. If a situation makes you nervous or uneasy, get
out.
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Do not open the door for strangers.
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Keep keys in hand when walking alone. They can be
used as a weapon.
Warning Signs
Many rapists:
- See women as sex objects
and do not respect them.
- Resent women in
positions of authority.
- Often invade women's
personal space.
- Continue to touch a
woman even when asked to stop.
- See aggression and
violence as normal behavior.
- Expect relationships
with women to be on their terms.
- See their actions as
seduction, not rape.
What if it happens to you?
- Report immediately to hospital emergency room for evaluation.
- Police will be notified for you.
- Do not change clothes or undergarments.
- Because clothing and undergarments may be collected as evidence,
bring extra clothes and undergarments with you.
- Do not shower, bathe or douche.
- Do not eat or drink until medical staff approve it.
Other things to consider:
- Pregnancy Prophylaxis (Morning After Pill)
- Sexually Transmitted Infection testing.
- HIV and Hepatitis Testing
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