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Sexual Violence
Risk Reduction Tips
These suggestions are helpful in reducing your risk of
being raped. However, there is no guarantee that these will work all the
time. Rape can be unpredictable. Being aware of yourself and your
surroundings is the most important aspect of avoiding rape.
- Be clear, honest, and consistent in your verbal
communication about your sexual desires and limits.
- Set clear sexual limits. Clearly articulate what
your sexual limits are, and communicate them early on.
- Meet a first date or blind date in a public place.
- Drive to meet your date. Tell a friend who you are
going out with and where you are going.
- Don't give out your phone number, ask for theirs.
- Say goodnight at the car rather than your front
door.
- Avoid use of alcohol and other drugs.
- Don't leave a party or social event with someone
you don't know well or have just met. However, remember that most rapes
are committed by someone you know.
- Trust your instincts. If a situation makes you
nervous or uneasy, get out.
- Do not open the door for strangers.
- Keep keys in hand when walking alone. They can be
used as a weapon.
Warning Signs
There are warning signs that a man may be a
potential rapist. However, not all men with these characteristics rape.
Many rapists:
- See women as sex objects and do not respect them.
- Resent women in positions of authority.
- Often invade women's personal space.
- Continue to touch a woman even when asked to stop.
- See aggression and violence as normal behavior.
- Expect relationships with women to be on their
terms.
- See their actions as seduction, not rape.
If you or someone you know has been a victim of sexual
violence or if you would like more information, please seek help from:
Public Safety Department
237-5555
Student Counseling Center
237-3939
Student Health Center
237-3883
You may also contact your local police department,
counseling center or healthcare provider.
Other information:
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